Tania Kettle

You know I was having a really interesting conversation with a girlfriend the other day.  

We were chitchatting away catching up on gossip and all kinds of juicy things and then right in the middle she said, I'm so surprised that you let that go and never said anything!  

And it made me pause because I realized that there had been times in the past when I would have thrown my toys out of the cot over it.  I would have made a real drama, stomped my feet, shouted, sulked and generally been a pain in the ass.

But there we were talking now and I just laughed and said, What was the point, people can't give you what they don't own.  And then we started talking about other things.

It was literally a two minute wonder.

Not the Two week, Kick the Ass out of it drama that it used to be.

But later on I thought back about her comment and it made me think about the answer.  

And this is what I came up with...Partly it's age, life really is to short to stress the small stuff but mostly I finally got it.

People have different ways of living their life.  Of valuing different things.  Of choosing where they put their time, love and Energy and as much as you can sometimes wish it would be different, it's not.

Yeah, those two little words, It's not.

Because you can't force someone to be different.

To live bigger, or larger or love more.

To make another, more positive choice or to act in a way which is all encompassing, powerful and empowered. 

You can't.  

And if you try you are just going to make yourself unhappy.  Upset and frustrated.

In fact, it's far easier, happier and definitely healthier for you to live but more importantly accept with grace, this one Divine Truth...

People can't give you what they don't own.

Have an uber cool week, baby.

Wishing you much love and abundance and a truly courageous heart.

T and Spirit

xx