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And here we are coming up to my most favourite time of the year...NOT.

Another Christmas without Liam, which to be honest, super sucks, HOWEVER, only 119 days (as you are reading this right now) until I see him.

And I can't wait.

But this is the time of year when you and I need to have a little tutu, and I'm going to keep it real short and sweet and simple:

A) Be kind to yourself.

You are important, and just because it's Christmas, you don't have to put up with family or partners, putting you down.

Making fun of you.

Calling you Mental or fat, ugly, old, or just pointing out your faults, For your own good.

You don't have to bend over backwards to be fucked forwards, and last but not least,

Do not confuse money-duty-responsibility-debt with Love, because they are not even kissing cousins.

So if your family have fallen off the Happy Wagon or as I like to call it, They are just toxic bastards, make your own Christmas tradition. 

One that doesn't include them.

B) Refer to A.

Kissy hugs

T (she/her) and Spirit


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