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You know, I just can't get my head around how men and women react so differently, to the same experience.

You will get a woman, who finds herself in an emotional situation not to her liking, and she will go, What can I do to change?  For him to treat me better.  For him to like me more.

Yet if a man finds himself in the same situation, he will stop and go, Yeah, no...Fuck this, and walk his fine ass away.

No looking back.  No regrets.

So, tell me, how in this day and age, can women still be so backwards in coming forwards, with what is ok and not, in a relationship?

How can we, as women, still be trying to fix ourselves, when we're not broken?

And the quick answer is, I just don't know.

What I do know though, is that you and I, as mighty fine women, need to take a leaf out of men's books, and instead of going, What can I do to change? 

Instead take a man's look and go, Fuck this, I'm gone.

Kissy hugs

T (she/her) and Spirit


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