29 Jun 26 I find it so hard to believe that I have a 32 year old son. Well, a man now. Because that means that I have been in my Industry now, professionally working, for 33 years. That's insane! And super weird for two reasons: 1) Mostly because I don't feel that I'm old enough to have a 32 year old son 2) I think my Soul is stuck at forever 16. I mean, I know I have to be mature in some way, I literally have a 32 year old son, but you will not find me acting my age. Or the age that other women wish me to live. To be fair though, to have a Forever 16 vibe is a real joy in my work, and a truly unexpected bonus, because this Industry is hard. I deal with conflict, trauma, and mental and emotional issues, every day. Multiple times a day. And mostly, I love it. I love being able to show you better ways, getting success for you, then celebrating your success. What I don't love, is the abuse and self-entitlement that I'm seeing at the moment. That self-entitlement blows my mind, the lack of basic please and thank you manners I find difficult to get my head around, but the abuse? The abuse is massive at the moment. As if it is your Spirit-Given-Right to throw abuse around to others, in answer to your personal bad choices and actions. That me talking about what was going to happen if you kept going on your current path, was somehow not enough. That me re-explaining what would happen if you kept going on the path you were walking, was wasting your precious time, and me Third-time-explaining was just me nagging your ass off and boring you stupid. Tap...tap... I get why you do it though. It's hard to stop making bad choices. It is truly challenging to change the way that you live your life. To step out of a toxic environment with negative actions, make another choice, and not repeat your pattern, well, your chances of success are slim. Super slim, and they get smaller every day. Because, and this is slightly controversial here, you don't get to sit back and well....just wait....and still be presented with all the riches that you explain to me that you want, need, desire and deserve. Spirit do not work that way. They expect your active participation. Actually, Spirit wait until they physically see your Step-Up-Start-And-Do action. ...and then Spirit come from cheering from the sidelines, to actively supporting your success, and to then physically shining a light forward for you. But, first before you even get to the action stage, you need to recognize that these challenges that are around you at the moment, they are creating you as a person. Defining the kind of person you currently are, and shaping the person you will ultimately become. Spirit love you, but they expect more, and better, from you. Stop. The. Abuse. Love always, T and Spirit, dino_the_dinosaur_kettle and the tribe xx * I respect the Elders of the Land where I work, live, laugh, love and play - Past, Present and Future.