30 Sec's on....
My most favorite word in the Universe is...
Independent.
I love the way it feels in your mouth, the way it whispers in your spaces, caresses your soul and morphs into a Tiger.
To me, it is the perfect word.
And embodies everything that you should aim to have.
Because it is the foundation for everything amazing that happens to, and for you, in a relationship.
Being Independent means you are not a victim.
You have self-worth.
An abundance of confidence.
Great friends.
And a way of making money that you are passionate about.
Which is why it hurts my soul, when I hear this word being bandied about in a disrespectful and confining way.
I mean, he can keep some independence. I'm not a bitch, but he'll learn when we get married.
or
You work? I'm really looking for a woman to look after....
Or
I'm tired of working, I just want a man to take care of me.
I know, right? Just hook up the two above.
But all jokes aside, this week has been scary in the negative co-dependent kind of way. The If you love me, you won't...
And that's kind of crazy because love, as you and I are talking about it, is strong and powerful, confident and empowered.
But it is also, consensually monogamous, respectful, non-addicted and kind.
Which brings me back to my original point...
Independent is sexy, baby, get your game on.
Wishing you much love and abundance and a truly courageous heart.
T and Spirit
xx