Tania Kettle

I don't know about you, but I hate ignorance.

It really upsets me, but the reason I dislike it so much is it comes down to this one little thing, I don't like you, because you are not like me.

Wow.

But anyway, normally I am able to flick this Energy off and go about my day.  

However, I was scrolling Facebook the other day and I saw one of my young friends had put a Bi Friendly post up.

What?  When did she decide she liked both boys and girls?

Then I gave myself a little slap because:

A) It's sooooooo not my business and

B) It's not even a slightly biggish deal.  

It literally comes under the umbrella of, I didn't know you were dating anyone.

And then I joined the Bi page.  Which also brought up quite a few other pages which I also joined.

So then I went and did a bit of surfing through these pages, and found a couple of interesting things like:

A) There's a whole lot of people out there who think it is their business who someone else sleeps with and

B) People are not just ignorant of those who don't fit The Hetro-sexual, monogomous lifestyle, but also extremely judgemental.  

Which I find odd.

Because it is not your business what someone else does in the bedroom.

No, seriously, if it's not the person you're sleeping with, then it's got nothing to do with you.

Anyway, moving right along, there are so many words to describe relationships these days, it's mind blowingly awesome.  

You have the obvious: 

Gay - boys who like boys

Lesbian - girls who like girls

Bi-sexual - male or female who likes both the opposite sex and the same sex.  

But what about Gender fluidity?  

A person who is Gender Fluid prefers to remain flexible about their (own) gender identity rather than committing to a specific gender.  They may flucuate between genders or express multiple genders at the same time.  

Or what about people who love being in a relationship, but hate being touched?   

But my personal favourite is, Pan-sexual.  

I love this word because, drum roll please....

Attracted to people regardless of gender.  They fall in love with the soul of a person, the sexual identification is not important.

How freaking cool is that?

Anyway, there's heaps more words to describe pretty much everything or anything you can imagine, and lots of different kinds of relationships out there.  There is literally something for everyone.

And I love that.

I do not love the hate though.

Which is why I'm so out in my support of non-hetrosexual relationships, because I believe in this one Truth...

It is your Divine right to love whomever you please.  And to be loved back.

Love who you love,  baby.

Wishing you much love and abundance and a truly courageous heart.

T and Spirit

xx