30 Sec's on....

Ok, so there I was, half way through writing this weeks blog and I went...

Wait!  What am I doing?  If I have to write one more time, Do not text a man 15 times if he hasn't replied once then I am going to bang my head against a brick wall until my brains fall out.

So, I dumped that blog.

But it did made me think about the choices we make.  And forgive me here, I really need to go back before I go forward...You know when you are texting a man 15 times without him replying that you're making a bad choice.  

But anyhou, moving right along, this is the question which has been driving me batsh*te crazy this week...

If you know better then why aren't you acting better?

That's it, I can breathe again.  

And why this annoys me is that most of you are highly intelligent women. You are well qualified, in your own business, in a good career or a great Mum. Overall, you have everything together so I don't get why you are not more switched on with your personal life.  And by this I mean men, parents, siblings, children and grandchildren.

Is it that we as women are so conditioned by our up-bringing that we can't step away from it?  

I don't think so, I think that's a cop out.  

But what I do believe is that it takes courage to live an authentic life.  

To be true to yourself and the best person that you can possibly be in all areas of your life.  To decide not to make yourself smaller to make someone else feel better, or bigger or more.  

To stand tall, strong and proud and say, I can be brave.  

And then speak.  Or not.

So, that's what I want you to focus on this week.  

Being true to yourself.

Because you are better than 15 texts and 6 phone calls. 

Wishing you much love and abundance and a truly courageous heart.

T and Spirit

xx