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Ok, so the hot topic this week is Boundaries.  

Well, that’s not 100% true.  Dating has been the hot topic but indirectly, Boundaries.

And the conversations have been quick and heavy because we as women all seem to have different ideas on what’s ok and what’s not.

Personally, I’m a hard ass.

I am there with my big witchy stick drawing a line in the sand and going, Don't even think of stepping over this line.

And I get lots of joshing from my girls about it.

But from where I’m standing you either deal with this stuff first or you deal with it later after boundaries have been squished. And I can’t see the point in that.

I mean seriously, if you make plans with me then they don’t eventuate at the proper time because you made a choice not to text or call me, we have a problem.

And I’m not being fair to you to pretend that we don’t.  We do.  

I also don’t care if the other 98% of women in the world might not have a problem with this.  My answer to this is, Go be with them then.

But...wait...You don't want to date those girls?

Exactly.

My girls say I need to be nicer.  

I say they need to be tougher.

Then we have the text, call issue.

How much is too much?  Or too little?

Well, for me I need to hear from you at least once a day.  

One of my close girlfriends made a gagging motion when I said that and said that she would find that controlling and needy.

I said, I don't care.  

I want a phone call or text preferably both once a day.  Although more than 5 texts a day I find annoying.  

I walk a fine line.

But it’s been fun this week. 

And whether you sit on the side of the fence of a hard ass like me or of the more gentle variety all I really want for you is a great relationship where your man or woman is emotionally available and invested in, you.

Wishing you much love and abundance and a truly courageous heart.

T and Spirit

xx