13.8.09
Today I want to talk about doing things you wish you didn’t. I believe that everyone knows when they are self-sabotaging whether it is being alcohol dependent, recreational drugs, casual sex, gambling and/or stealing. Sometimes you can justify it by saying it was only one night…..we got pist up but everyone does it…..well, we were going to have sex sooner or later so it doesn’t really matter when…..or……but why shouldn’t I have it? I deserve it! Well, just hang on a minute - bypassing and shortening that which should have strong foundations is a recipe for disaster.
Time is important. In fact, time is your friend because it allows you to see the fruits of your labour. It allows you to fine tune things as you go along, to tweak and adapt to get a continuous, positive flow of energy. To stop yourself going down a path that doesn’t work or to find a better, and more fabulous way of being and achieving, your goals…..and sex, drugs, alcohol, gambling and/or embezzlement don’t help, in fact, in all cases they will do nothing but harm you, your home, your family, your goals and most importantly your success. What I need you to understand though is that at any time you can stop and ask for help. All things can be over come. Yes, there will be consequences but seriously, how can there not be? But what you gain in self-respect, hope and peace of soul far outweighs what you lose short-term. If you have found yourself in a not right place, choose not to be a self-sabotaging victim any longer. There is not one person alive who hasn’t made mistakes (lol - I have made way, way, way more than one and any successful person will tell you the same thing) so you are not standing alone. Life’s tough some days but at any minute you can choose to make it one little bit easier.
Let me leave you with Grandma Moses…….
Losing a child’s a disaster, everything else is just peas and gravy 
