11.8.09
Ok, I’ve had quite a bit of feedback from yesterdays blog so I decided to talk more about one in particular email I received……
Why would you expect me to pay for you when you make good money and you believe that men and women are equal and frankly, how do I know that you are good company? I only have your word for it. And regarding “free” sex if I’m paying why would I keep taking you out for dinner without getting something back?
Good question he-man! The quick answer to that is because this is not a business partnership but an emotional connection which may, if all the stars are aligned, go into a deeper, more connected, emotional and intimately contended relationship. If we find out we like each other. We can’t do that if it is just all about the sex.
Starting a new relationship is like making a pavlova - separating the eggs yolks from the egg whites, changing the texture from runny and clear to soft peaks, adding sweet sugar and sour vinegar. Mixing together the different ingredients and textures then giving it a little time to co-join, creating something strong and fragile, sweet and light with just a hint of tart. Add a little bit of naughty cream later and voila lol a match made in heaven 
Or you can just have ice-cream.
Another hill (up and round) walk
